I hate the hot takes about the incel movement that posit that we have to recognise these men come from a place of profound self-hatred and sadness.
Like? I don’t give a fuck? They’re externalising that self-hatred and talking about how they want to rape, kill, and disfigure women. I don’t care about their emotional turmoil. I don’t care about their delusions about their own worthlessness and ugliness.
Their bad attitude towards women is solidly the reason they can’t find a relationship. It’s not their looks, it’s not the genetic lottery dealing them a bad hand, it’s the fact that women can generally smell that level of virulent misogyny on men.